Jerome Stephen Anthony Metallo

Jerome Stephan Anthony Metallo-beloved, son, brother, husband, devoted father, cherished friend, and the heart of his community-passed away peacefully on the morning of his 55th birthday, July 15, 2025, at 9:00 AM.

Known lovingly as "Jerry," he lived life with a rare and joyful passion. He was an old soul with a magnetic charm-handsome, soulful, and endlessly warm. A gifted sommelier and wine expert, Jerry didn't just pour wine-he told stories through it. He had a loyal following of "wine groupies" who trusted his palate, hung on his every tasting note, and followed his recommendations like gospel. He believed wine was an experience to be shared, a way to bring people together, and a reason to celebrate life-whether it was a rare vintage or a weeknight glass with friends.

Jerry was a romantic in every sense. He adored his wife, Cara, with whom he built a life full of music, mischief, and deep love. Their kitchen was their dance floor, where meals often burned because the music was too good and the moment too sweet to interrupt. They laughed hard, loved deeply, and showed the world how to savor every little thing. 

He was a proud and tender father to Gianna and Luca Metallo, and the neighborhood "Papa" to Elijah Kuhn, Tyler Finn, Amelia Finn, and Lily Getting-a role he embraced with open arms and a full heart. He loved all the babies he ever held. Whether sharing wisdom, cracking a joke, or slipping someone a chocolate when no one was looking, Jerry made every kid feel like family. 

A passionate lover of the classics, Jerry had a soft spot for black-and-white films, the Rat Pack, and the timeless croon of Sinatra. He often said he was born in the wrong era, but anyone who knew him could see that he brought the elegance, charm, and soul of that bygone time into the present.

Jerry's extended family was loud, loving, and proudly boisterous-and they never missed a chance to celebrate his birthday, his life, or any excuse to raise a glass. This year, they honored him one last time on the very day he was born-laughing, crying, and telling stories that will echo for generations. 

He is survived by his beloved wife Cara, his children Gianna and Luca, and his devoted parents Jerome and Carol Metallo as well, brother Michael, sister in law Heather and loving nieces Merissa and Kaitlyn. He also leaves behind countless friends, wine lovers, neighbors, and "adopted" family members who were better for having known him.

His extended family of the heart consists of the masses in the wine community. Highlighting wonderful community family of DJ O’Brien, Tiffany Booth, Edwin and Jeesely Soto, John and Shannon Gillingham. 

Jerome Metallo taught us all about joy, about love, and about the power of truly living. In the words of one of his favorite songs: "The best is yet to come, and babe, won't it be fine..." Rest easy, Jerry. You were the vintage we'll never forget.

Interment was Private. Arrangements made by PERMAN FUNERAL HOME AND CREMATION SERVICES, INC., 923 Saxonburg Blvd. The family respectfully suggests donations be made to help Jerry’s children, https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-jerry-metallo-and-family-through-crisis.